I was just asked by a sub- which is more exciting. The moment a sub’s mind submits completely.. Or the moment you feel that absolute control…
I said well aren’t those the same thing?
It got Me thinking this was an interesting and heart felt question I had not heard or thought much about. So the answer is I feel like its more of a process and no one ever submits every drop of their control… how could they? they give more and more over time, and in some ways I get used to it, and get annoyed when they throw up a road block I need to take down. I love My more submissive pets and slaves. I value them above other subs that are not as broken down.
The moment I first break him down from his ego, when I realize My foot is in the door is when I get My first rush of lusty endorphins. This happens best in person but also just as good in chat live, or over the phone. I can hear it in his voice, I can when I am able to see him in person see him fumble… when I know he will do what I want him to do. I often don’t catch Myself feeling that Dominant rush where I realize My manipulations are totally working and I’m about to test it and ask him to do something outside of his comfort zone. Something he had not expected. When I get this prize I’m so full of whatever that is that I’m high and aroused. It is one of the most intense positive feelings I feel.
Whoops I just got a woman’s boner just thinking about the rush I get from what I see as the first seduction/manipulation.
Goddess, Thank You for sharing Your thoughts with us; i love what You wrote. There is a moment also when the sub realizes that he will actually do whatever You say. i imagine it’s that shared moment that is most powerful in person. Yet the moment does happen “online” and a true submissive will not put up any roadblocks; especially after he has learned his place.
even a true submissive can put up road blocks pet m. I am glad you enjoyed My thoughts 🙂
I just like to say that i’m proud and thankful that you, Mistress Leslie, would take the time to give more in-dept answer regarding my question from your twitter page her on your blog. It’s cool to hear first person how a hypnodome enjoys the rush of submission and pleasure that comes from it.
As for me, i once was a sub of someone who i followed so deeply i thought more about her happiness then my girlfriend at the time. Since then i know my subconscious slides walls up as protection even when i’m not involved but, i still enjoy the release of control and power it takes when i’m under.
i must say that a beautiful picture, submission would’ve been absolute back in college looking into those eyes….
well the question made Me think… you are welcome! I am glad you enjoyed reading My answer.
Mistress: What you are describing, to me at least, is the moment when the polarity of the power exchange swings TO the Mistress. It’s not a win-lose thing however because the sub feels the immersion into it. It used to be about pleasuring his penis or about doing as the Mistress say to get to pleasure the penis NOW, after the polarity switch, the sub truly does do her bidding for HER pleasure and entertainments not for his directly–in essence her pleasure becomes his goal, his pleasure–win-win.
Cali
I don’t need you to explain what I meant, or how it appears or feels for you or any submissive. you seem to be excited to post and sounding a bit arrogant when you do so. I think its time for you to listen to more of My files and work out that lack of humility.